Blogspot or Wordpress?

Fun fact: I have both a Blogspot and a Wordpress. I'm not entirely sure which I prefer. I figure it doesn't particularly matter anyway.
I've learned a lot this month, probably more than I ever thought I would.
The first thing I have learned, is dating in Utah is a completely different from dating in Pennsylvania. Without giving away too much, never assume you're going anywhere relationship wise in Utah. I'm just saying. I've decided that while I do care quite a bit, I'm just going to go with the flow. Mainly because that is just how I am. Confrontation scares me more than ever. It's probably a good thing I decided to put law up on the shelf. Whatever is going to happen will happen. If someone wants to be with me I am now, officially, making it their job to let me know. Until then I am doing what I want to do and I refuse to worry about anything dealing with relationships. Period.
Another thing I've learned/been reminded is how fragile life is. I almost lost a good friend this week. One minute your life may be one way, but just one decision can make it go down a completely different direction. It's so crazy to me to see how your choices can impact others' lives in huge ways.